Showing posts with label moving out. Show all posts
Showing posts with label moving out. Show all posts
This week marked 2 years since I packed up all my crap into boxes (I am not gonna lie there was a lot of it - seriously why do you save some stuff) and me and Adam moved into our first home together.
It honestly thought that moving in with Adam would be easy. Don't get me wrong, the us living together bit is a breeze cuz ya know I'm quite fond of him and getting married and stuff but the other side of it - boys be crazy! I thought growing up with a brother who was practically the same age I would be totally ready for all the bad habits and the boy stuff but heck - its nothing! They have a lot of sneaky little habits and things that nooooo one knows! So here we go!
It honestly thought that moving in with Adam would be easy. Don't get me wrong, the us living together bit is a breeze cuz ya know I'm quite fond of him and getting married and stuff but the other side of it - boys be crazy! I thought growing up with a brother who was practically the same age I would be totally ready for all the bad habits and the boy stuff but heck - its nothing! They have a lot of sneaky little habits and things that nooooo one knows! So here we go!
When it his turn to cook you'll probably end up getting a take away
Adam is terrible for this! I do most of our cooking - mainly because I'm home from work first but on the days Adam has off in the week I normally ask that he cooks since he has been home all day. This normally turns into the question of "Fancy a takeaway" or "come on I'm taking you out for tea" which makes me want to face palm every time. The worse thing is Adam is not a bad cook - he's just lazy.
Your days off are not your own
Remember the days when you could sit on a Saturday or a Sunday and just watch spend all day watching back to back episodes of Greys Anatomy. Yeah thats not gonna happen anymore. I seem to spend most of my weekend running around doing bits and bobs. Tidying the house, Running errands in town, food shopping. All this said don't expect the boy to consider the same. They seem to think their days off are for 10am lie ins and spending all day on the PS4.
They really don't care about interior design
You spot a gorgeous new rug or a cushion or a picture, anything remotely decoratey and its like "yeah its nice" - Ive come to learn they are just not interested in that kind of stuff and 9 times out of 10 will just say its nice to keep you happy.
You'll have to head lock them to get any colour in your life
Adam is a stereotypical boy. When we were choosing colours for rooms with both houses he couldn't understand why every room couldn't be blue.
Nothing is ever where it should be
Boys have no damn concept of putting anything in its proper home. Have the juice out of the cupboard to make a drink? Still on the kitchen side... Buy him a box to keep his PS controllers in... would rather leave on the coffee table... and won't even get started on the state he leaves the sofa cushions in!
When things are not where they should be you'll be expected to know where they are
Get your crystal balls out girls... I'm constantly getting asked the question "Do you know where my ... is" to the point where I have just started rolling my eyes and ignoring him!
I could probably go on all day. And as much as all these things drive me crazy, weirdly you learn to live with them. Im sure Adam could probably write an equal list about me.
What are the things you lot picked up about living with a boy???
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So as promised, I thought I would share with you my favourites of the past year. 2014 was a pretty whirlwind year with so many exciting things happening! Warning this post WILL be photo heavy!!!
Probably the best thing about 2014 is getting to spend the year with this amazing boy! I literally feel like we have been together forever (although we have been friends forever)
Im sure you can guess what this is all about! Right in front of the castle at Harry Potter Studio Tour, Adam got down on one knee and asked me to be his wife.
Probably the best thing about 2014 is getting to spend the year with this amazing boy! I literally feel like we have been together forever (although we have been friends forever)
Picking up the keys to our first home!!!
After everything that happened with Dad in March, me and mum should have been going to Chester for Afternoon Tea for Mothers Day but unfortunately we couldn't go so we celebrated at home instead.
Packing the car after our trip to Ikea - Tetris Champions!!!
Packing up my room at mum and dads, Pepper decided she wanted to help!
We celebrated our first night sleeping in our new home (where we literally just had a bed and a couple of other bits of furniture) we had no sofa and so spent the night on camping chairs but we made it work!
Spent a fab 2 weeks in Ibiza with Mum and Dad
Im sure you can guess what this is all about! Right in front of the castle at Harry Potter Studio Tour, Adam got down on one knee and asked me to be his wife.
These 2 little additions to our family have brought us nothing but joy and laughter this year!!!
We went to a family party where we all dressed up as different characters. Adam and I went as Micky and Minnie.
In September we went to Centre Parcs with Adams Family. A fab 5 days and I even got to get all outdoorsy and ride a trike - Seriously i need one of these!!!
We then spent a lovely weekend up in Sheffield with Adams family. I got to meet new addition Edward (Teddy) on the right who is Adams Best Friends little boy and absolutely gorgeous and spent the entire weekend running round after Jacob (Adams Nephew)
For the first time in my life I carved a pumpkin!!
We celebrated by putting our Christmas tree up!
Eeeeek - Went to the Good Food Show and Met Paul Hollywood and Mary Berry
We celebrated with our normal family tradition of Christmas Breakfast at Toby Carvery on the Saturday before Christmas - just the 4 of us complete with Christmas Jumpers!
We had a lovely christmas day and I was spoilt by the boy <3 Just a couple of my presents!
I cooked turkey and Christmas dinner for everyone and didn't kill anyone!
We ended our new year by spending the 2 days (NYE and NYD) with Adams family up in Sheffield - the alcohol flowed and we had an absolutely fantastic time!
And that in a nutshell is my 2014! What a year!!! I can't wait to see what 2015 holds :)
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As you may or may not already know - 6 months ago I packed up all the crap I had hoarded over 25 years and I moved out. Me and Adam decided that we were going to rent somewhere, mainly because we just didn't have the money for a deposit right now. I learnt and have picked up loads of tips and I thought I would share them with you all :)
- When you first pick up the keys to the house, make sure you check your gas and electric metres and take a picture of them. I did this the first day I picked the keys up and it meant that we were not paying for any gas and electric that was not ours.
- When your boxing stuff up be ruthless. As I say I had collected quite a lot of crap over the years, stuff I had intended to use and never did, clothes I had never worn, get rid of them if you haven't used them!
- If your moving out of your parents house you probably have little or no furniture like we didn't. Shop around and get the best deals for what you want and don't be afraid to buy from different places, it is tempting to just get everything from one place and pay one lot of postage (if you do it online) but sometimes shopping about can save you a fortune.
- Don't be afraid to visit charity shops - we have a couple of charity shops around Stoke which specialise just in furniture and you can pick up an absolute bargain. I knew when we moved in I wanted a 6 seater table so we could have both sets of parents around or more room for guests. We picked up this 6 seater table and chairs in Oak (solid oak) which also folds down to a 4 seater table if you want more room. This was an absolute bargain of £75 from our local British Heart Foundation.
- If you want to buy furniture new - visit Ikea! We got quite a few bits from Ikea including a lot of kitchen basics which are dirt cheap, plate sets, glasses. We also picked up a lot of other furniture such as an awesome coffee table for £5, drawers for the bedroom which were £35 and bookcases for £10. The awesome thing about ikea too is that their prices depend on what colour furniture you chose. Most of their pieces come in white, black and various wood pieces.
- Consider setting up an account for Bills. Me and Adam set up a joint bank account where we both pay into every month. We then have our all bills and rent come out of this and the left over is what we have for food. Saves us both gaffing.
- Use apps. A lot of companies now have apps that you can use. We have our gas and electric with Eon and we can upload our metre readings and keep a check on our bill on the app.
- One piece of electrical equipment I would defiantly recommend that you buy is a slow cooker. It is so tempting when you move out not to cook. I have never had a problem because both me and adam love to cook but I know friends who have moved out who go mad and live on take away. If you invest in a slow cooker you can whack something in before you go to work and when you get in, its done, little effort involved.
- Tying in with the above, plan your meals. I always plan everything because doing slimming world it is easier to track but I have found too that it can save you an absolute fortune! I make a list on a Saturday or Sunday of what we are going to eat in that week and then make a list for the supermarket based on what we actually need to but not just winging it! Even if I end up with a couple of extras it still saves me buying things we have plenty of. Ive got the below planner from the Martha Stewart range at staples so we both know what we are having on what day.
- Again in with shopping make sure you use all the resources around. With Asda you get can price check on your receipt, Sainsburys do it for you and give you a voucher if they were not cheaper. If you don't mind shopping at a different supermarket every week, download an app called My Supermarket allows you to put in what you want on your shopping list and it tells you where the cheapest supermarket is - great if your a planner who knows what they want like me.
- Use the local amenities rather than supermarkets. We shop at a local butchers who has a massive outlet where the meat is so much cheaper than at the supermarkets! We go about once a month and stock up!
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